20 Reasons Your Boss is the Worst Ever - The Elusive and Parasitic Narcissistic Micromanager
Read this with caution!
I wish I could tell you that these managers are like the fabled unicorn and only exist in lore; or they have been sighted like Bigfoot but never really proven to exist. But alas, they do indeed exist. I will admit they are a rare combination of human reality that spells misery for those unfortunate enough to work for them. Like mutants, they are hidden among normal management genetics. In other words, they are hiding in plain sight.
If you work for one of these managers, you are probably experiencing a period of misery like no other in your lifetime. No job, regardless of compensation, is worth spending another day with this manager. They are toxic and will damage the organization, team, and every individual they are in contact with, both on and off the job.
I am going to share this perspective from two realities including their personality attributes and their impact on the organization they manage. Narcissistic Micromanagers (NMs) are the polar opposite of the servant leader on the leadership spectrum. There is no credible leadership model that supports a positive outcome from this type of manager. Let’s take a look.
Organizations infected by the NM parasite experience higher than normal turnover in key positions. Good people will not endure the parasitic reality very long and leave to begin healing. Subordinate employees disengage and withdraw or simply stop contributing. In fact, many subordinates go out of their way to avoid this self-absorbed, management freak of nature.
NMs place a high degree of emphasis on low priority work. They literally sweat the small stuff. They are absorbed with managing the details of subordinate responsibility and believe they are an expert on everything. In doing so, they cannot manage historical trends for success and cannot see long term impacts from the decisions they make.
NMs tightly control the flow of communication and want to be copied on every email because they cannot trust subordinates to make the best decision without their input. They never allow a subordinate to communicate above them in the chain of command. If something occurs that they were not aware of, they become very upset for being “surprised”. Sound familiar? They delegate with strong reservation and often create the pretense of delegation by vetting
actions they approve beforehand.
NMs believe they are experts on everything they have ever been involved with in the past and tell subordinates how to do their jobs. They rarely ask for input from others and never desire the advice from true external experts that may contradict their perspective or opinion. They leverage cost as a means to prevent true expertise from entering the organization. They tell subordinates that it is cheaper to keep this
“in-house” because they donotknow what they do not know. They fail to understand that nothing is more expensive than ignorance.
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